How does one succeed in life?
12.06.2025 09:20

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Do you wear tights for warmth or to make your legs look better?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Hangs out with loser friends.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Why is my elder sister so mean?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
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Do not set goals—set systems.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
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Living to your full potential is a goal.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Procrastinates a lot.
Why do almost all the girls on Quora look beautiful?
What I need from you?
Ask yourself:
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Do you think Japan will have same-sex marriage by 2030?
That's it for today.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Making more friends is a goal.
Has your mother ever walked in on you at an inappropriate time?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Does not procrastinate.